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When I got into a relationship, I want it for long term otherwise, none at all. I want it to last. I don't want relationship just for the sake of having one.

A partner who stays even if the world gives a lot of reason to leave.

And I think I found her.

We first met online through an application Moovz. It is like a Facebook for the LGBT community and for straights as well, where you can meet and greet, post anything (nudity is not allowed), make friends. Just like Facebook basically. If I'm not mistaken she is the one who chat me first then I replied. I added her to our Viber group chat 'mooverz' so she can meet fellow Filipino moovz user. Yes we exchange conversations but that's just it because I am eyeing on someone already. But that someone, let's call her A, is not ready. I did my best to court her, send messages, make calls but I guess she is not that ready. So I wandered again, and this girl, let's name her K, popped again asking how my day was, if I already had my meal, etc. She is so consistent in sending me messages and making calls. Over time, our conversation deepens and I felt it is more than just conversation. So we decided to meet up. This girl was A for effort. She came all the way from her work in Batangas City. I was overwhelmed that someone can do what I can do for someone they love. The moment she decided to meet me was effort already but to trust me was different. I thought that long distance relationship will mind her but she doesn't. She wit that kapag gusto may paraan (if you really want it, you will find a way). TEN POINTS FOR K! :D

So that fateful day, April 20 2016, I fetch her at the bus terminal in Gil Puyat (Buendia) where all the bus going to Batangas area lined up. So I saw her. I felt she was bit nervous but manage to smile and crack a conversation. We had our dinner in Jollibee where our conversation start with  Jollibee viber stickers Hahaha. And the rest was history..

And now.. we are approaching on our second monthsary. Honestly, before our first monthsary, I 'm quite nervous because first month was kinda traumatic to me. My previous relationship ended in one month. Hahaha

But things are different now. I already have her. Finally found a match literally and figuratively hahaha. as the song goes she loves me like I do. hahaha.

As I have said to her, copying Solenn's vow, I won't promise that I won't hate her at times but I will love her even if it hurts. Ayiiieeee! hahaha And I won't promise anything, I will just keep doing things a partner should be.

I know LDR will not be that easy, misunderstanding or petty fights may come, but I know for sure we'll surpass it all. 
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