Missing my soon to be mother in law

Mother in law - they are the mother of our spouse. The one who sees everything even the tiniest microscopic dust. The one who checks the sink for unwashed dishes. The one who pays a visit just to have the house and children inspected. Does it ring any bell?

All of the above description is the opposite of my soon to be mother in law, Mama Cristy. She is everything to my soon to be husband and to my soon to be second family. Unfortunately, she is not living with us anymore. May she rest in peace.

Anyways, one television show in ABS CBN 2 here in the Philippines, Please Be Careful With My Heart starring Jodie Sta. Maria as Maya and Richard Yap as Sir Chief, made me miss my soon to be mother in law. At one particular episode, Maya and her soon to be mother in law having a happy and fun conversation over the phone. Telling how they miss each other, how are they doing and things like that. At that time, it feels like that I am watching myself and Mama Cristy having that kind of chat. Believe it or not we are like that. Crazy, funny, hilarious, caring, loving mother in law. She is not the typical mother in law who sees everything. Because according to her (of course when she is still alive and kicking), she doesn't want me to experience the harsh treatment she experienced from her mother in law. She wants a home filled with happiness and love.

If you are having a hard time with your mother in law, still, love them back. Besides, she is the mother of your beloved husband. Whether she sees the bad in you, see the goodness in her.

I hope you are having a great time reading this post. Thank you very much and have a wonderful day ahead!

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