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Lessons learned from the year 2015

By this time, My mom and I were done preparing for New Year's Eve potluck. A bit sleepy because I got to woke up early for it.

While my daughter is busy playing her Doc McStuffins' doctor set wit her playmates, I am too, is busy typing and thinking this post. Hahaha. I must say there is a lot of lessons I learned this year. Maybe you can get something from it too. Believe it or not. Haha.

1. You cannot make someone stay if they don't want to.
If a person loves you they will stay. If not, they will say hundreds of reasons. At first, talk to them about it. It is like negotiating with them. If both of you wants to continue, go ahead. But If one insists the reasons to leave everything behind, let them go. A relationship should not be one sided love. Make yourself busy and moved on. The right one will come in the right time.


2. Time heals all wounds.
It may sound cliché but it's true. It doesn't matter how long it takes to heal. The most important thing is you are healed. Just give everything a time. No need to rush.


3. Love will struck you whoever, whatever, whenenever you are.
Yes it is true. I, myself, was a testament to it. When it happens to you, enjoy every bits of it. Just go with the flow.


4. Love has no boundaries.
No race, no gender, no color, no age, no nothing. Love is love. You and I can love whoever we want to love. Period.


5. Friends that will really help you in times of need.
I can attest to that. It is so nice to have a friend who will show you support when you are in need, in confusion, etc. As the saying goes, true friendship is not about being there when it is convenient; it is about being there when it is not.


6. Your parents will be there for you no matter what.
At the end of the day, we will still look for our mom or our dad whether we had a bad day at work or an increase in salary, or during your breakup/s. They will be there in our highest highs and lowest lows. Love them as they loved us.


I guess that's all for now.. 


May 2016 brings us happiness, good health and love. Let us all face the year filled with positivity and gratefullness. Happy New Year everyone! Cheers! 🍻🎉💥🍾🎇 

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