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Moving on

People come and go.We just have to accept that. We cannot hold a person entirely for ourselves even if cause a lot of pain for us because that is not love. Love is not owning. Love is letting go of that person to make the other grow on his or her own.

When it comes to break up, whether its good or bad, you should give each other  time and space to ponder to think of what has transpired between the both of you. So the next relationship both of you are going to have, you will know what to do and not what to do. You shouldn't force yourself to be friends with your former partner because it will just makes things worst (Believe me! Haha). Give each other a reasonable time to mend, to heal. If you start as friends, I am pretty sure you will be friends again in time only can tell. I am not saying this to hold grudges or hate to your former partner, just give each other time to recover by all desirable, socially and legally accepted means.

Desirable, Socially and Legally Accepted Means

Go back to yourself. Love yourself again. How?!
1. Go out with your friends and family.
2. Dine out to the newest or coolest resto you can think of.
3. Drink with your friends. Make sure you go home in one piece or you know who you are going home with.
3. Buy things you always wanted. Maybe a bag or shoes or a dress. Gadgets perhaps.
4. Be one with mother nature. Go with a group who climbs mountain or do scuba diving.
5. Find a hobby. Scrap booking, taking pictures, drum or guitar lessons, DJ lessons. There's hundreds of it. You can never run out of it.
6. Pamper yourself. Have a haircut, hair color, foot spa, facial, dental check up.
7. Immerse yourself to certain sports. Running, Triathlon, kickboxing, boxing. 

This is just one of the few things that works for me. Maybe you can add up some. Sigh! So good to be in love but so hard to be broken.

That's love.

Love like you have never been hurt before.

Cheers to us!



 
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